Under such instilled thoughts, children developed a deep respect for life, knowing from a young age that they would have to create their own lives once they reached adulthood.
Su Xiaowan exposed them to numerous professions and types of work to help them fully understand what industries and environments they were most suited for. Although they were not yet adults, each of them had some idea in mind, which would greatly benefit their future career choices.
Su Xiaowan did not want to dictate her children's lives, nor did she need them to achieve greatness to add luster to her own name. All she wanted was for them to live happily, healthily, and joyfully.
To live the life that one desires, each person is an independent individual. They were not all required to excel in the same way, and their individual differences were embraced.